“My husband was in an odd mood Saturday night. We planned to meet at a cafe for a drink.
I spent the afternoon shopping with the girls and I thought it might have been my fault because I was a bit later than I promised, but he didn’t say anything much about it.
I don’t remember doing anything to make him upset, but I could tell there was something wrong.
The conversation was quite slow going so I thought we should go off to some place intimate so we could talk more privately. We went to this restaurant and he was STILL acting a bit funny.
I was getting really worried, what did I do? What was bothering him? Was he mad at me? I tried to cheer him up, but started to wonder what was bothering him. Was it me or something else?
I asked him if he was upset with me, he said no. But I wasn’t really sure. So anyway, in the car on the way back home, I said that I loved him deeply and he just put his arm around me.
I didn’t know what the heck that meant because, you know, he didn’t say it back or anything.
We finally got back home and I was wondering if he was going to leave me! So I tried to get him to talk but he just switched on the TV.
Reluctantly, I said I was going to go to bed.
Then after about 10 minutes, he joined me and to my surprise, we made love.
But, he still seemed really distracted, so afterwards I wanted to confront him but didn’t.
I just cried myself to sleep. I don’t know what to do anymore.
I mean, I really think he’s seeing someone else.”
—- His Side of the Story: —
“Played very badly today — shot 87 – – -can’t putt for ####!….
Felt kinda tired…..
Got laid though.”